We cry. We smile. We laugh. We're heart broken. We're moody. And then, every time, I wonder that how much a single hug can make a person feel so good, supported, so fine.
Hug. It's more than just a three-letter word. It's about the assurance of being there rather than a hundred of broken promises, shattered dreams, fake commitments and aimless statements. It's not about the physical contact, but the trust and the sense of safety, ignoring that feeling of isolation, anger and hurt. Hugging therapy, is a really powerful way of healing.
Well. let's not think the way our 'Orthodox' society thinks. Our society and people might think too wrong about it. You see a guy hugging a girl, and immediately, without even a single explanation, we detect the non-existent love between the two. Because, we human beings, are so so so amazing!
Even if you see an enemy of yours upset, broken, or on the verge of giving up (worst case scenario) just, hug him/her. It might make him/her smile or cry. Cry, in most cases, but trust me, it will help. Because at times, it's about the actions and not the words.
Moreover, you end up learning how to give, and how to receive.
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